What can you do? You're in a state of utter shock. This was not supposed to happen! After all the tears, slammed doors, walking on eggshells, begging and pleading, you're at a loss to stop a divorce from happening. You've both been through so much and you should be able to make peace with it, but you can't. It doesn't feel right, but you really don't have a choice... right? Wrong! You can stop a divorce at anytime!